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Monday, April 15, 2013

I Took My First Little Blue Pill Last Night...

This past weekend was full of more wedding festivities, that included a  Crawfish Boil Engagement Party in Lafayette! 


These are just a few pictures from my camera (my future father-in-law has many more on the way!) But a little synopsis....
Going into this party I was expecting your typical backyard boil, very low key and not all that big of a deal (to be honest)....Was I ever blown away by our hosts and hostesses! The Saloom's have a group of friends the "Supper Club" who wanted to throw the party for us, and the location was in the backyard of one of the families. Walking in, the backyard and deck was spectacular. The tables were decked in the red table cloth theme with such cute lamps and accessories, and the pool even had floating floral arrangements. Shown in the 2nd picture was the sign in table that had adorable hats and aprons for us to wear for the night (my hat had a veil while Adam's had a black bow). Now to explain the first picture...This boat was set up near the back of the yard and every time a certain song played during the night we had to stop whatever we were doing and run to the boat and "paddle" ourselves around the pool! We were the entertainment (comedy!) for the night but it was such a unique and cute idea, I really loved it and would use it when planning a party! 
Thank you so much to everyone who put in so much work, it was really perfect!

Now moving on to the title of this post....this is where my Mom is sitting reading this hoping and praying that the title means anything else than what she thinks it does, that I wouldn't actually write about something like that in a blog for the world to see. Sorry Mom.....
Its what it looks like....last night I began the great adventure of  Birth Control. Dun Dun Dunnnnn....
This shouldn't normally be a huge deal. There are a lot of women out there on birth control, but ....not all of those women are trying to run at the elite level getting paid to perform.

I have tried to do my research, I really have but that darn Kara Goucher and Shalane Flanagan just aren't open enough on their contraceptive methods! I jest. This was really a hard topic to research there are not books about what birth control works best for the elite distance runner or the trials and errors of what others have done in this particular field. There is the common side effect of weight gain, which could be detrimental to my poor bones, or the shot which even causes a loss of bone density! And the added hormones which have been known to make a woman, well a little crazy, and i'm sure Adam can vouch for the fact I don't need any "extra crazy" on my current crazy level :) There was the IUD option, which the Dr. quickly opted away from...which left me with hmmmm...one option. The Pill. 
I went with the Dr.'s recommendation of Lo Loestrin, which he assured me would 1) only have a weight gain of about 2 lbs (I figured I could live with that) and 2) would NOT make me crazy! (I was seriously asking everyone who came in my room if these were going to make me crazy, they probably thought it was too late for that! lol) 
So far I did not wake up today with any abnormalities, though I wasn't expecting to....We shall see the effects that this will have in the upcoming months and how Lo Loestrin affects the training of a distance athlete. 

Anyone have any running with birth control stories? 



Tuesday, April 2, 2013

Whos Wedding?

While I titled my article "Whos Wedding", I don't want to restrain myself to just wedding themes but instead open to the broader other milestones (actually just having babies, since that is what began this lengthy thought)....

Since Adam and I got engaged there has been this constant worry from whoever that would worry (ie. my Dad, future mother in law, unknown others) that the wedding will be my design and desires and reflect very little of what Adam has always "dreamed" for his wedding.
The planning of the wedding has actually been mostly my ideas and thoughts, only because my groom doesn't give a rip if there are decorations in the church or center pieces on the reception tables (much to my dismay!) And BELIEVE me his nonchalant attitude is not from being excluded in the wedding process, but an actual lack of caring about much more than 1) people there 2) food there.....

Throughout this process I have been constantly reminded that the wedding is half yours and half Adam's (never by Adam, i might add :) ), so everything you do needs to be a decision between the both of you and what you both want for YOUR day. Now, don't get me wrong I completely agree with this! And I have been trying my best to pull opinions out of Adam for the last year and a half, but.... At the same time I think back to 9th grade with Kelli at the lunch table.
We spent a good several weeks throughout our days planning out "Our Future Wedding". And it didn't end there, why is there always some type of wedding in chick flicks?  Why do women love going to weddings? Why did I already have the "white" theme of my wedding picked out long before I knew I was going to marry Adam? I have been planning this day for, if not my whole life, then in depthful thinking for the past 10 years! And people want to tell me I have to share everything with this guy (my love!) who still hasn't given our table decorations (or anything wedding related) a second thought...Whaaat?  Now how in the heck does that work?
This whole thought came to me today during my lunch break, I was checking facebook and innocently stumbled across a status asking a question about regular diapers vs. cloth diapers. I spent the rest of my lunch researching about cloth diapers (this wasn't my first time either).
Adam and I are NOT planning on having kids anytime soon, like seriously another 5 years down the road. But for some reason or another I am researching my very future babies diaper needs! And the thought occurred to me how similar this was to the "equal wedding clause". I have been pinning nursery room ideas, researching baby things when I get the itch, looking at baby clothes if we pass by with Mom, spending my lunch break researching diapers .....many many many years in advance.....and when the time comes i'm going to have to give a whole half of the decision making to Adam, despite the fact he will have never ever ever ever thought about which diapers would be best or spent years thinking about colors for the nursery.....
Hopefully Adam will care as little about the diaper choice as he does of if we use Hydrangeas or Roses ;)